Comments on: The Pipe Dream http://www.dmbosstone.com/2009/07/the-pipe-dream/ Thoughts of a Millenial in a social media world Wed, 17 Mar 2010 19:53:14 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Patrick http://www.dmbosstone.com/2009/07/the-pipe-dream/comment-page-1/#comment-80401 Patrick Tue, 04 Aug 2009 04:06:46 +0000 http://www.dmbosstone.com/?p=3156#comment-80401 I've had the opposite happen to me, I kept thinking of a girl in the midwest after a weekend together. However I convinced myself out of it again and now she's engaged. I don't think of it as sad, just another stop along the journey of love. I’ve had the opposite happen to me, I kept thinking of a girl in the midwest after a weekend together. However I convinced myself out of it again and now she’s engaged.

I don’t think of it as sad, just another stop along the journey of love.

]]> By: Patrick http://www.dmbosstone.com/2009/07/the-pipe-dream/comment-page-1/#comment-80400 Patrick Tue, 04 Aug 2009 04:05:28 +0000 http://www.dmbosstone.com/?p=3156#comment-80400 T, your thoughts are always appreciated and is pretty much why I had to make a hard choice. T, your thoughts are always appreciated and is pretty much why I had to make a hard choice.

]]> By: Patrick http://www.dmbosstone.com/2009/07/the-pipe-dream/comment-page-1/#comment-80399 Patrick Tue, 04 Aug 2009 04:04:49 +0000 http://www.dmbosstone.com/?p=3156#comment-80399 Ya I saw myself thinking two steps ahead when I realized I've already hit a wall. Ya I saw myself thinking two steps ahead when I realized I’ve already hit a wall.

]]> By: Patrick http://www.dmbosstone.com/2009/07/the-pipe-dream/comment-page-1/#comment-80398 Patrick Tue, 04 Aug 2009 04:04:15 +0000 http://www.dmbosstone.com/?p=3156#comment-80398 That's exactly what I think Jamie when I think about why I'm really not into this girl as much as I thought I may have been. That’s exactly what I think Jamie when I think about why I’m really not into this girl as much as I thought I may have been.

]]> By: Andhari http://www.dmbosstone.com/2009/07/the-pipe-dream/comment-page-1/#comment-80394 Andhari Mon, 03 Aug 2009 04:26:57 +0000 http://www.dmbosstone.com/?p=3156#comment-80394 This is sad, I had a few experiences like this and it doesn't always happen when I travel someplace far, sometimes it even happens in my own city. People meet, spend a weekend together, then never see each other again. Sad, is all I can say. This is sad, I had a few experiences like this and it doesn’t always happen when I travel someplace far, sometimes it even happens in my own city. People meet, spend a weekend together, then never see each other again. Sad, is all I can say.

]]> By: teege http://www.dmbosstone.com/2009/07/the-pipe-dream/comment-page-1/#comment-80392 teege Mon, 03 Aug 2009 00:50:05 +0000 http://www.dmbosstone.com/?p=3156#comment-80392 yeah, i can attest through personal experience that LD is hard ... even if you are fairly certain that that person is your one and only and your soulmate ... if that kind of relationship isn't there to back it up, i don't think the commitment and "hope" that someday you will be together is really enough to justify that kind of effort. just my thoughts, T yeah, i can attest through personal experience that LD is hard … even if you are fairly certain that that person is your one and only and your soulmate … if that kind of relationship isn’t there to back it up, i don’t think the commitment and “hope” that someday you will be together is really enough to justify that kind of effort.

just my thoughts,
T

]]> By: Alice http://www.dmbosstone.com/2009/07/the-pipe-dream/comment-page-1/#comment-80385 Alice Sat, 01 Aug 2009 20:43:26 +0000 http://www.dmbosstone.com/?p=3156#comment-80385 man, that's rough, when you allow yourself to start seeing a future with someone who, turns out, you don't get a chance at a future with. .-= Alice´s last blog ..<a href="http://aliceblogs.blogspot.com/2009/07/its-probably-only-tmi-because-i-mention.html" rel="nofollow">it's probably only TMI because i mention The Sex</a> =-. man, that’s rough, when you allow yourself to start seeing a future with someone who, turns out, you don’t get a chance at a future with.
Alice´s last blog ..it’s probably only TMI because i mention The Sex

]]> By: Jaime | Fast Times http://www.dmbosstone.com/2009/07/the-pipe-dream/comment-page-1/#comment-80384 Jaime | Fast Times Sat, 01 Aug 2009 19:09:57 +0000 http://www.dmbosstone.com/?p=3156#comment-80384 Sometimes the fantasies we come up with in our heads about people are better than the real thing. .-= Jaime | Fast Times´s last blog ..<a href="http://thepqnation.com/showandtell/2009/07/i-lovefridays-23/" rel="nofollow">I LOVE…Fridays</a> =-. Sometimes the fantasies we come up with in our heads about people are better than the real thing.
Jaime | Fast Times´s last blog ..I LOVE…Fridays

]]> By: Patrick http://www.dmbosstone.com/2009/07/the-pipe-dream/comment-page-1/#comment-80383 Patrick Sat, 01 Aug 2009 17:05:35 +0000 http://www.dmbosstone.com/?p=3156#comment-80383 Taylor, thanks for reading! I'm not the writer in the Pho family but I appreciate your complement. You are right about feelings fading with time, I don't think I missed up my one chance at all, I just think there was never a long term hope with this girl. Kinda makes me wonder why I wanted her down here for a weekend in the first place. Maybe it's because I wanted to be happy- even if it was for a moment. Maybe I'm more selfish than I think. Taylor, thanks for reading! I’m not the writer in the Pho family but I appreciate your complement.

You are right about feelings fading with time, I don’t think I missed up my one chance at all, I just think there was never a long term hope with this girl. Kinda makes me wonder why I wanted her down here for a weekend in the first place.

Maybe it’s because I wanted to be happy- even if it was for a moment.

Maybe I’m more selfish than I think.

]]> By: Patrick http://www.dmbosstone.com/2009/07/the-pipe-dream/comment-page-1/#comment-80382 Patrick Sat, 01 Aug 2009 17:03:17 +0000 http://www.dmbosstone.com/?p=3156#comment-80382 I don't think of her as much anymore, I've given up and she's no longer lingering. I'm glad to hear a long distance relationship that's worked- I don't think with the kind of girl she is that such a LTR would be a good idea. I think I'm over her now, but I wanted to wait for some time to write this post to distance myself from immediate feelings- but rather a look back as I close the chapter. I don’t think of her as much anymore, I’ve given up and she’s no longer lingering. I’m glad to hear a long distance relationship that’s worked- I don’t think with the kind of girl she is that such a LTR would be a good idea. I think I’m over her now, but I wanted to wait for some time to write this post to distance myself from immediate feelings- but rather a look back as I close the chapter.

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