A Vietnamese Engagement In The United States

by Patrick on August 14, 2009

One of the big reasons I’m behind on life is because I flew back home last week to attend my sister’s engagement ceremony. For those non-Vietnamese out there it’s a tradition that involves lots of praying, food, and bowing. Check out Wikipedia and this very informative article explaining some of the customs.

So I flew back home and spent the weekend with my family. It’s as stressful as it seems. I did have a chance to catch up with a few of my favorites back home- but it was all family last weekend.

My lil' bro started sporting some pretty hipster glasses. At least he's looking less emo than usual.

My lil' bro started sporting some pretty hipster glasses. At least he's looking less emo than usual

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My sister Diana

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Mike and the procession

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Nobody knew when to start, chaos ensues

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The march into the house

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Like I said, lots of bowing

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The reception at Jin in Saugus, MA

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The Family

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Perfect way to end the night- there was a male strip show happening in the other hall

I’ve been to a few ceremonies so I knew what was going down, however I was surprised how crazy the preparations were leading up to it- I guess it is bigger than the wedding sometimes. The guest list was also very interesting, my mom even invited the family dentist to come and watch. Again it must of been a big deal.

It was also so weird to hear my Dad, who never speaks ever, address an entire crowd of people in a language he barely knows.

All in all it was a great weekend with family, and while I thought I was off the hook- I was told I might have to do the same thing when I get married.

Maybe it’s a good thing I’m single and lonely after all.

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  • http://thepqnation.com/showandtell Jaime | Fast Times

    Would your family disown you if you eloped?
    .-= Jaime | Fast Times´s last blog ..I LOVE…Fridays! =-.

    • http://www.dmbosstone.com Patrick

      I don’t know depends how fast between the engagement the and the elopement.

  • http://lustyreader.wordpress.com Lusty Reader

    i ADORE your bro’s glasses. and male strip show next to engagement party = too ironic it hurts
    .-= Lusty Reader´s last blog ..Friday Finds (Aug 14) =-.

    • http://www.dmbosstone.com Patrick

      My brother tried to get in but it was ladies only.

  • Len

    Good point about your brother…the splash of blue from his tie is decidedly NOT emo.

    • http://www.dmbosstone.com Patrick

      Haha he has a random sense of style most of the time.

  • http://lacochran.blogspot.com lacochran

    Is it strange that I like rituals? Mostly other people’s, though.

    Nice looking family.
    .-= lacochran´s last blog .."Feed me!" –Little Shop of Horrors =-.

    • http://www.dmbosstone.com Patrick

      Well thanks- now you know where mine came from.

  • http://www.staciehays.com Stacie

    I think its really cool that your family did things traditionally. Being a mutt when it comes to my heritage, any and all culture we might have had is long gone.

    • http://www.dmbosstone.com Patrick

      I kinda think it’s cool- I’m pretty Americanized and I like to go back to my roots every once and awhile.

  • http://luv2share.comluv.com/ love

    I like Vietnamese wedding traditions. It’s really solemn and sincere.
    .-= love´s last blog ..Vietnamese Favorites =-.

    • http://www.dmbosstone.com Patrick

      I’m glad somebody likes them. I’m still on the fence.

  • http://dmp.dreamwidth.org D.M.P.

    Haha, yeah, Danny is becoming pretty hipster.

    And thanks again for gathering the crowd outside!

    I think the fam is expecting the wedding to come up soon, but that’ll be another story…
    .-= D.M.P.´s last blog ..Judging a Book by its Cover, Part 1 =-.

    • http://www.dmbosstone.com Patrick

      Oh boy…

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